First Looks
Traditionally, a couple sees each other for the first time on their wedding day during the ceremony. But you're eloping, so you can do whatever you want! You can still do a first look on an elopement day, and there are a few ways to do it!
What is a First Look?
A "first look" is when the couple chooses to see each other before the ceremony. At traditional weddings, this is usually a planned private time for the couple to share a special moment together before the ceremony.
Can we do a first look on our elopement day?
YES! Absolutely. Whether it's just the two of you or you have guests, you can absolutely do a first look on your elopement day. On an elopement day, it's likely that you will end up seeing each other before the ceremony regardless since you may not be walking down an aisle. However, you can have a dedicated time to see each other all dressed up on the elopement day before the ceremony.
How do we do a first look at an elopement?
- First look at your getting ready location: You can get ready at the same location and then do a first look once you're both ready. Afterward, you can drive together to your elopement location.
- First look at the trailhead or elopement location: If you're arriving at the elopement location together, you can finish getting ready there and then do a first look. This often involves putting on your final outfit somewhere private nearby (like in some trees or in the car) before seeing each other. You could also arrive separately and then meet for your first look at the location.
- Hike and then change into your elopement attire: If you're doing a hike (or activity) to where you're saying your vows, you can wear hiking clothes for the hike and then change into your elopement outfits once we get to the location. Then we can do a first look once you're both ready. This will likely involve changing and finishing getting ready in some trees.
What if we are inviting guests?
You can still do a first look! The same recommendations apply if you are inviting guests to your elopement. You could do a private first look with your partner before you meet up with your guests, or even a first look with everyone there! You could also do a first look with special people like parents, friends, etc.
If you are inviting guests, a first look may be a good time for you and your partner to spend some quality time together with just the two of you.
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Final Notes
Whether or not you choose to do a first look is entirely up to you!
If you have any questions, just let me know!
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